Welcome to For This Reason Marriage Ministries:

We are Pastors Fred & Norma Aguilar and we are so excited to have you be a part of this powerful marriage ministry!  We have made it our mission to help couples to stay in love forever and revive their marriages.  We provide Spirit-filled, Christ-centered training and counseling "couple to couple" in the home.....where God intended His presence to abide as the foundation of our marriages. The Word of God is clear "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." Gen 2:24

Our Marriage Ministry has helped countless thousands of married couples by ministering Jesus' reconciling power to the separated, the divorced, the unsaved, broken families and couples that are hurting. The proof of our ministry is in the countless married couples lives we have had the privilege to help and the husbands and wives standing for their marriage today despite their friends, family and even brothers and sisters in the Lord telling them to divorce. Divorce is not the answer and we teach couples how to reconcile, stand and believe that nothing is too great for our GOD and how to be "In Love Forever".

The biblical concept of marriage is that marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman to live together in mutual love and respect for the glory of God, until death do them part.  Marriage is not about us, so it is not about me.  It is about God and His kingdom.  God ordained marriage as the foundational unit of society and everything is built on marriage.  Marriage, done God's way, creates the safest and best environment in which to rear children and covenant principles of marriage are based on steadfast love - looking out for the interest of each other.  They are about seeking to encourage and support each other, throughout life not just when you feel like being in the covenant, because you are "in the covenant" whether you feel like it or not and so we teach to please the Lord with your love, care and commitment to Him and to your spouse.

Thank you for visiting inloveforever.org. It is our sincere desire to bring hope to your marriage situation regardless the circumstances! Below you will find a powerful weekly teaching on covenant marriage done Gods way.

Take a minute to read testimony of couples just like you ........


Glory to The Lord & Blessings Upon You...

Fred & Norma Aguilar



Intruders That May Be Destroying Your Marriage-
"Now the Lord God said, "It is not good (beneficial) for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper [one who balances him-a counterpart who is suitable and complementary for him." So the Lord God formed out of the ground every animal of the field and every bird of the air, and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them; and whatever the man called a living creature, that was its name. And the man gave names to all the livestock, and to the birds of the air, and to every animal of the field; but for Adam there was not found a helper [that was] suitable (a companion) for him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam; and while he slept, He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place. And the rib which the Lord God had taken from the man He made (fashioned, formed) into a woman, and He brought her and presented her to the man. Then Adam said,
"This is now bone of my bones, And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man." For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed or embarrassed." Genesis 2:18-25 AMP
For many years, we have seen more and more marriages falling apart.
Couples who have been married as short as 12 months - trying to weather the storm of human nature, all battling the elements that tear marriages apart, and many times failing. It breaks our heart to see the suffering that comes from a broken marriage, and the devastating effects it has when a once united body is torn apart in two by the jaws of divorce.
It makes sense that God hates divorce. He, more than anyone else, sees the pain it brings to his people.
It is crucial to protect our marriages from the things that can tear it apart. On many occasions when I do a wedding to this new creation a picture that they will remember in the year to come I pull out a few nursery blocks from my pocket. I then go on to explain the symbolic lesson behind each shape- diamond, circle, and triangle. But the one lesson that I find that stays with couples is the importance of the Circle.
The circle represents boundaries. It is the wall of protection surrounding your relationship.
The barrier that keeps deadly intruders from finding a way in. And like it or not, intruders are all around. They can take on so many forms that if we're not careful, they will find a crack in our walls and slowly seep in.
In an attempt to guard our marriage from Intruders, you both MUST be deliberate in keeping a circle around your lives that belongs only to you. Your marriage is your sacred space, and there are certain components to each other that only you have access to. You both must be careful to protect the things that could easily lead you into the way of an intruder:
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Proverbs 4:23
Emotions: Before anything else in an inappropriate relationship comes the root of emotion. It's important to guard yourselves from interactions that give to someone else a part of you that belongs to your spouse. Obviously, you need to have great caution when sharing your hearts with someone of the opposite gender, because there are parts of you that are "magnetic" when shared with the heart of another, and should be shared with no one but your spouse. There are certain conversations that you need to choose to partake in ONLY with your spouse, and they with you.
But even more subtlety dangerous, we have found there to be truth in this matter even when it comes to same sex relationships. Women, in particular, love to connect on a deeper level, and there's nothing wrong with that. The problem comes when those interactions are taking the place of the depths of connection that we are meant to have with our spouse.
Sometimes, even venting to our friends about our marriage can be enough of an out to keep us from "venting" to your husband or wife. A lot of communication between spouses is lost because it is finding its way out through other relationships.
"Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,'[a] 5 and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'[b]? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." Matthew 19:4-6
It's important to be proactive about connecting with your spouse, sharing your heart, your feelings, your dreams.  We are created to connect, so we will either bring that need to our spouse or allow it to be filled by intruders.
Interactions: You both must be very deliberate about the choices you make when it comes to interacting with the world around us. From what comes out of our mouths, to what we write in emails, Facebook, to the way we handle our body language- we make a choice to honor each other in everything that we do.
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2
We have built a trust with one another, a trust that started from the first day that we met. Because of that trust, we have full access to each other's lives and anything that has to do with interactions with other people including emails, text messages, computers, conversations, etc. etc.
The trust that we have with each other comes with certain responsibilities, but that trust also allows us to share in an intimate freedom with one another that far outweighs the sacrifices and responsibilities.
Time: This is the quietest of intruders, but one that is ravaging many homes because of its silent entrance. Our time is a valuable commodity that should be invested in the people that we love and cherish the most, and given to those who we are committed to.
You must choose to invest our time in each other.
Although even if you are together every moment, that doesn't protect you from the Intruder of Time. Time can slip away with your separate hobbies and interests. You can be in the same room, but find that the time you are spending is really not being invested in each other at all.
With all the modern distractions of Facebook, Pinterest, Reality TV, and yes....even blogging...you can find that your time is being given to the inanimate in exchange for the intimate.
Protecting your marriage from intruders is a daily task. You must be mindful of that through you whole married life, and continue in prayer that God will continue to keep you on guard...always protecting, always trusting, always hoping, and always persevering in our marriage and in our love.
What does "I love you" mean to you? How about when spoken on a wedding day? In short, it is an affirmation of the individual's wedding vows. Those three words are short for, "With God as my witness, I take you as my covenant spouse, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until we are parted by death. This is my solemn vow, to you and to Jesus."
Included in there is your Emotions - your Interactions -  your Time - your Love and Commitment to them and to Jesus!
Learn to Love Jesus and then learn to Love like Him!


Jesus loves you so much!


All gifts to For This Reason Marriage Ministries are tax deductible:
Will you prayerfully consider supporting For This Reason Marriage Ministries with a year-end contribution in response to the blessing we have been in your life? No gift is too small. The Lord can use the $5 gift as much as He uses the $1000 gift.   



We are here to help and offer phone/ Skype counseling. Just visit the Contact Us link on our website. If we can help, please call us at (817) 605-8133 or email us to request more information on our marriage seminars, retreats that help save and build marriages.

For This Reason Marriage Ministries

P.O. Box 742

Colleyville, TX 76034

Thank you and the Lord bless you for your prayers, love and gifts of support.


There is still a group of us gathering Monday thru Saturday for one hour of prayer at 6 am, you can join us by phone if you are interested in joining us please Contact Us so I can give you more information! Remember that is 6:00 am CST.









Get added to the latest news and updates on the ministry