Welcome to For This Reason Marriage Ministries:

We are Pastors Fred & Norma Aguilar and we are so excited to have you be a part of this powerful marriage ministry!  We have made it our mission to help couples to stay in love forever and revive their marriages.  We provide Spirit-filled, Christ-centered training and counseling "couple to couple" in the home.....where God intended His presence to abide as the foundation of our marriages. The Word of God is clear "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." Gen 2:24

Our Marriage Ministry has helped countless thousands of married couples by ministering Jesus' reconciling power to the separated, the divorced, the unsaved, broken families and couples that are hurting. The proof of our ministry is in the countless married couples lives we have had the privilege to help and the husbands and wives standing for their marriage today despite their friends, family and even brothers and sisters in the Lord telling them to divorce. Divorce is not the answer and we teach couples how to reconcile, stand and believe that nothing is too great for our GOD and how to be "In Love Forever".

The biblical concept of marriage is that marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman to live together in mutual love and respect for the glory of God, until death do them part.  Marriage is not about us, so it is not about me.  It is about God and His kingdom.  God ordained marriage as the foundational unit of society and everything is built on marriage.  Marriage, done God's way, creates the safest and best environment in which to rear children and covenant principles of marriage are based on steadfast love - looking out for the interest of each other.  They are about seeking to encourage and support each other, throughout life not just when you feel like being in the covenant, because you are "in the covenant" whether you feel like it or not and so we teach to please the Lord with your love, care and commitment to Him and to your spouse.

Thank you for visiting inloveforever.org. It is our sincere desire to bring hope to your marriage situation regardless the circumstances! Below you will find a powerful weekly teaching on covenant marriage done Gods way.

Take a minute to read testimony of couples just like you ........


Glory to The Lord & Blessings Upon You...

Fred & Norma Aguilar



Home Is God's Will  -
"Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer, he desires a noble task. Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. (If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God's church?) He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil. He must also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil's  
trap."  I Timothy 3:1-7
If America were ever to fall, the predicted progression is first individuals fall, then marriages fall, then churches fall, then communities fall. After all this happens, society, as we know it today, is ready to fall. Where are we right now? Without question, people have fallen. Look around at all that is happening, too much evil to illustrate. Consider the news reports you have heard in the past week.
As you know, marriages have fallen, and so many people do not seem to care. Is the church in America strong enough to hold back the tide of satanic attack that has already taken out individuals and marriages? Spiritual attack is at the church door, and in some instances, has already been allowed inside.
Each week For This Reason Marriage Ministries has contact with dozens upon dozens of hurting men and women from all across the land. Based on what we have been hearing for some time now, in general the church in North America is unhealthy, because in church after church, the men of God have become lukewarm shepherds, especially when it comes to marriage.
How I praise God for churches where the pastor is a sold-out blood-bought servant of our Almighty God, striving above all else to win people to Jesus Christ and to mature them as Christians, this takes discipleship, time and love. Yes, an investment in people lives!
His motives are not nickels and noses, nor notches in his pastoral belt, but the saving of souls, regardless of the personal cost. All across America, we hear of some kind of revival taking place at churches pastored by shepherds like this. Sadly, those churches seem to be in the minority.
In an attempt to keep up with the big numbers over at the new "contemporary" movement in town, pastors have decided to entertain their people instead of disciple them and hold them to a higher standard, God's Standard. The greatest travesty of all is that in some circles, the cross has not found its way into the new church building. (If your church has forsaken the cross, you need to go elsewhere.) If there is no cross in the church then what do they believe in???
Yes in many churches the pastor gets up, attempting unsuccessfully, with humor and current events, to be a Sunday morning Letterman or Leno, wanting everyone to like him, all the while forgetting what people seek in coming to church; "What can you give me from God to help me make it through another week?"
During the week, the pastor is often inaccessible. Days alone with God, asking Him how to build up the people, have been replaced by days at conferences, asking how to build up the numbers. Numbers numbers big big that is the God they serve...
The pastor's study has becomes a death chamber for marriages, as men and women with broken hearts over marriage problems hear not the promises of God, read from His Word, but the counsel to, "Divorce because you have grounds," and "God doesn't want you to be unhappy." Some are even hearing, "God has someone better for you." Why are wounded mates and their prodigals not told about the Cross of Calvary? The abandoned spouse is directed not to an altar, but to an attorney. Even though only separated, they are pointed toward divorce recovery classes, often the first step in finding a new mate.
The motto of many churches in dealing with fractured marriage has shifted from "Hang on and let God work," to "Get mad, get over it, and get on with your life."
How we rejoice when we hear about a pastor who has taken on a prodigal church member who walked away from family and faith, praying and praying, and praying some more; loving the unlovable, until that marriage is healed. Working with the couple, yes at times endless nights however being there to help them with the Word of God. We are thrilled when we hear of a pastor going the extra mile to show a confused, sin-filled prodigal they are still loved, both by that pastor and by their God.
How often does a pastor not have time to visit or communicate with his flock, but always has time for his own activities? In his personal life, he attempts to see how close to the line he can live, instead of being an example of holiness for his church and for the community, as were pastors of past generations. Why then, should we be shocked at hearing that yet another minister has fallen into sin and has left the pulpit in disgrace?
If pastors showed up for church, dressed and acting like they had been in the presence of God, and taking seriously the responsibility of being His human voice, ready to proclaim His living Word to a hurting generation, the people would come, lives would be changed, and marriages restored.
Why are pastors such a concern to me? Over 34 years ago when Norma and I were going through our problems we praise God for Pastor Dennis Easter, Pastor Jack Hayford and Pastor Dennis Corrigan mighty men of God who spoke the truth to both of us and did now allow the word divorce to come out of their mouth, only words of life and hope!
Where would Norma and I be if it was not for these men of God, I thank God for them everyday... Their message and counsel to us was home, make a home, stay at home, home is where you both belong and belong together that is God's will for you!
How often from the pulpit at your church do you hear, "marriage restoration," or "marriage put back together again," or "marriage restored," or "marriage healed," or anything along that line?
Just consider what would happen if every pastor in the world was praying for marriage restoration every week! That is where we need to be. If we are praying for the sick, why not the sick marriages?
If there ever comes a day when because of circumstances in your marriage, and the weight of all the things that come against marriage that you would find yourself in front of a man of God who will deal with you straightforward as I was; no looking for loopholes, but a man of God sharing what the Bible says about marriage, divorce, and the family. We all need to be directed home, not into another relationship. We need to pray there are pastors like that across the land.
It is not too late to stop the slide to destruction of individuals, families, churches, communities and then society. The horse is out of the individual's gate, as well as the family's gate. It is at the church's gate. Let's pray that our pastors turn to God 100% and recognize what is happening before it is too late.
"But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy because I am holy."   I Peter 1:15
 Stay faithful, stay in pray, stay at home and stay in love! Remember love is not a feeling it is a decision and a decision we need to make every day! Ask the Lord Jesus Christ to come into your life and help you He will!

Jesus loves you so much!

Please if you would like more information on how to join us for prayer on the phone line, email or call and I will provide you with what you will need to join us!


All gifts to For This Reason Marriage Ministries are tax deductible:
Will you prayerfully consider supporting For This Reason Marriage Ministries with a year-end contribution in response to the blessing we have been in your life? No gift is too small. The Lord can use the $5 gift as much as He uses the $1000 gift.   
Your gift must be postmarked by December 31, 2016 to be credited in calendar year 2016 for tax purposes.   


We are here to help and offer phone/ Skype counseling. Just visit the Contact Us link on our website. If we can help, please call us at (817) 605-8133 or email us to request more information on our marriage seminars, retreats that help save and build marriages.

For This Reason Marriage Ministries

P.O. Box 742

Colleyville, TX 76034

Thank you and the Lord bless you for your prayers, love and gifts of support.


There is still a group of us gathering Monday thru Saturday for one hour of prayer at 6 am, you can join us by phone if you are interested in joining us please Contact Us so I can give you more information! Remember that is 6:00 am CST.









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