Welcome to For This Reason Marriage Ministries:

We are Pastors Fred & Norma Aguilar and we are so excited to have you be a part of this powerful marriage ministry!  We have made it our mission to help couples to stay in love forever and revive their marriages.  We provide Spirit-filled, Christ-centered training and counseling "couple to couple" in the home.....where God intended His presence to abide as the foundation of our marriages. The Word of God is clear "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." Gen 2:24


Glory to The Lord & Blessings Upon You...

Fred & Norma Aguilar

What Kind of Love What Kind of Fear -
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10
Fear is a problem that has had some very negative impact on so many people and marriages. Yes, it has been the root causes of many problems: fear.
Fear can be so powerful and crippling as fear influences our beliefs, emotions, and behavior. Many allow fear to enter their lives, their marriages yes even their very walk with the Lord, with this fear comes loads of baggage filled with things that the Lord has already taken care of for us!
Yet because of fear of rejection, the fear of feeling unloved or not being loved, maybe the fear of abandonment, the fear of some kind of failure, the fear of not having enough, the fear of losing someone of something are just a small example of the baggage of fear that we carry with us. Some carry the fear of seeing their parents divorced when they were young and fear the same with happen with them and their marriage. And then there are many who have just stuffed way down in their heart many kinds of fear, not free from fear but just have stuffed.
Yes, fear has a way of hindering what God has planned for our lives, our marriages, our families because we have given into fear, even if we have stuffed deep down inside, the enemy will always have a fun time playing with our fears.
A typical reaction to fear is to protect yourself. As problems surface in people's lives many react under the shadow of fear. Many have tried to protect themselves in many ways including nagging, control, manipulation, walking on eggshells, fighting, aggression, and putting up walls. Many have been so driven by the fear of their needs not being met, Oh so many are unaware that their own fear is contributing to many of their marriage problems.
"There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out all fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.  1 John 4:18
Regardless of the crisis before us, whether our spouse is talking about leaving, we're separated, facing divorce, or already divorced, we have been given an opportunity to face our greatest fears. One of the biggest fears for so many is abandoned. So many have said, "if my spouse leaves me, it would kill me. Eventually, I found out the truth; it didn't kill me."
Instead, for many when they faced that trial experienced God's love in a way they never knew before, a deep and firm love that never lets go, and His love has set many free from fear and a new found love for the Lord and for their Spouse.
"I sought the Lord and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed." Psalm 34:4-5
Even if you are facing your biggest fear through your situation and circumstances, I encourage each one of you not to let fear master your life and destiny any longer.
"For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry Abba Father!"  Romans 8:15
Give God all of your fears, and allow His perfect love to restore your soul. To restore your marriage, He will take you to a higher place as you learn to, commune with Jesus on a moment to moment basics.
When you are set free from fear, you will have the freedom to love your spouse as Christ loves them. His love will be flowing through you as you pray for them from a place of love instead of fear. "We love because he first loved us." 1 John 4:19. With the love of Christ working through you, you will cast out the fear in your spouse's life and the fear that was at work in your marriage.
Study the biblical account of Hosea and Gomer. Learn to receive and live in the redeeming love of God calling us all back to Himself.
Love the Lord your God and love one another. Love one another as He loves. Love with strength and purpose and passion and no matter what comes against you. Don't weaken. Stand against the darkness, that tries to remove love from you. That's the way back into Eden. That's the way back to life.
"The Lord is my light and my salvation-whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life-of whom shall I be afraid? When the wicked advance against me to devour me, it is my enemies and my foes who will stumble and fall. Though an army besiege me, my heart will not fear; though war break out against me, even then I will be confident. One thing I ask from the Lord, this only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the Lord and to seek him in his temple." Psalm 27:1-4
 Live a life free from fear, trust the Lord, Believe in the Lord, Worship the Lord and never stop praying! Love the Lord with ALL your heart!

  Jesus loves you so much!

 You are welcome to join us for prayer every morning at 6:00 am, CST.

Please if you would like more information on how to join us for prayer on the phone line, email or call and I will provide you with what you will need to join us!


All gifts to For This Reason Marriage Ministries are tax deductible:
Will you prayerfully consider supporting For This Reason Marriage Ministries with a year-end contribution in response to the blessing we have been in your life? No gift is too small. The Lord can use the $5 gift as much as He uses the $1000 gift.   
Your gift must be postmarked by December 31, 2016 to be credited in calendar year 2016 for tax purposes.   


We are here to help and offer phone/ Skype counseling. Just visit the Contact Us link on our website. If we can help, please call us at (817) 605-8133 or email us to request more information on our marriage seminars, retreats that help save and build marriages.

For This Reason Marriage Ministries

P.O. Box 742

Colleyville, TX 76034

Thank you and the Lord bless you for your prayers, love and gifts of support.


There is still a group of us gathering Monday thru Saturday for one hour of prayer at 6 am, you can join us by phone if you are interested in joining us please Contact Us so I can give you more information! Remember that is 6:00 am CST.




For This Reason Marriage Ministries has helped countless thousands of married couples by ministering Jesus' reconciling power to the separated, the divorced, the unsaved, broken families and couples that are hurting. The proof of our ministry is in the countless married couples lives we have had the privilege to help and the husbands and wives standing for their marriage today despite their friends, family and even brothers and sisters in the Lord telling them to divorce. Divorce is not the answer and we teach couples how to reconcile, stand and believe that nothing is too great for our GOD and how to be "In Love Forever".

The biblical concept of marriage is that marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman to live together in mutual love and respect for the glory of God, until death do them part.  Marriage is not about us, so it is not about me.  It is about God and His kingdom.  God ordained marriage as the foundational unit of society and everything is built on marriage.  Marriage, done God's way, creates the safest and best environment in which to rear children and covenant principles of marriage are based on steadfast love - looking out for the interest of each other.  They are about seeking to encourage and support each other, throughout life not just when you feel like being in the covenant, because you are "in the covenant" whether you feel like it or not and so we teach to please the Lord with your love, care and commitment to Him and to your spouse.

Thank you for visiting inloveforever.org. It is our sincere desire to bring hope to your marriage situation regardless the circumstances! Below you will find a powerful weekly teaching on covenant marriage done Gods way.

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