Welcome to For This Reason Marriage Ministries:

We are Pastors Fred & Norma Aguilar and we are so excited to have you be a part of this powerful marriage ministry!  We have made it our mission to help couples to stay in love forever and revive their marriages.  We provide Spirit-filled, Christ-centered training and counseling "couple to couple" in the home.....where God intended His presence to abide as the foundation of our marriages. The Word of God is clear "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." Gen 2:24

Our Marriage Ministry has helped countless thousands of married couples by ministering Jesus' reconciling power to the separated, the divorced, the unsaved, broken families and couples that are hurting. The proof of our ministry is in the countless married couples lives we have had the privilege to help and the husbands and wives standing for their marriage today despite their friends, family and even brothers and sisters in the Lord telling them to divorce. Divorce is not the answer and we teach couples how to reconcile, stand and believe that nothing is too great for our GOD and how to be "In Love Forever".

The biblical concept of marriage is that marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman to live together in mutual love and respect for the glory of God, until death do them part.  Marriage is not about us, so it is not about me.  It is about God and His kingdom.  God ordained marriage as the foundational unit of society and everything is built on marriage.  Marriage, done God's way, creates the safest and best environment in which to rear children and covenant principles of marriage are based on steadfast love - looking out for the interest of each other.  They are about seeking to encourage and support each other, throughout life not just when you feel like being in the covenant, because you are "in the covenant" whether you feel like it or not and so we teach to please the Lord with your love, care and commitment to Him and to your spouse.

Thank you for visiting inloveforever.org. It is our sincere desire to bring hope to your marriage situation regardless the circumstances! Below you will find a powerful weekly teaching on covenant marriage done Gods way.

Take a minute to read testimony of couples just like you ........


WEEKLY MESSAGE | STANDING ON GODS WORD | 08/24/2016

Glory to The Lord & Blessings Upon You...

Pastors
Fred & Norma Aguilar

 

 

A God Class Marriage-
 
"The man said, "This is now bone of my bones, And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man." For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh." Genesis 2:24-25 NASB
 
Do you want to improve your marriage? Of course you do --if you didn't you wouldn't be getting this. But what about having a "World Class Marriage?" Have you thought about what it would take to have a marriage like that?
 
"Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything." Ephesians 5:22-24
 
To have what we call a God Class Marriage, you must start by realizing that true love and 'chemistry' are important and wonderful, but marriage is a skills-based relationship and your happiness as a couple is dependent upon those skills. And most importantly the Word of God.
 
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless." Ephesians 5:25-27
 
Below are "16 Pillars", to use which can help you to have a "God Class Marriage." Please pray before reading the list below and see if the Lord brings any of these suggestions to the forefront of your mind as ones that you could apply to your own marriage. Think about it --which of the Pillars do you need to apply most to your marriage? And then ask the Lord to help you follow through with them. Here are the 16 Pillars:
 
1.  "SET GOALS: Goals help direct your energies and lead to success --both individual goals that are supported by your spouse, and shared goals that you have as a couple.
 
2.  "AVOID BLAMING: Blame is a relationship cancer --destroying love, caring, closeness, and everything you come in contact with. The same applies to self-blame!
 
3.  "UNDERSTAND THE NATURE OF BEHAVIOR: Behavior is always goal-directed. When your spouse does something that bugs you, he/she isn't deliberately trying to upset you; he/she is trying to meet a need. Recognizing this helps you become more compassionate and back away from blame.
 
4.  "USE POWER LISTENING: Becoming good at this skill is the most important ingredient in fostering growth of your spouse when dealing with a problem, and the growth of your relationship together.
 
5.  "GIVE UP 'TIT FOR TAT': Retaliation just doesn't work in an intimate relationship. When your spouse disappoints, non-blameful confrontation maximizes cooperation and caring.
 
6.  "ASSUME SELF-RESPONSIBILITY: Your spouse is only an 'assistant need-meter' in your life, and you can minimize a lot of problems when you remember that you are your own primary need-meter --about matters both large and small.
 
7.  "AVOID COOL TALK: Sarcasm, cool and trend language is fun when you see them on television, but they aren't the stuff of marital closeness and caring.
 
8.  "CHANGE BEHAVIORS, NOT YOUR SPOUSE: Confrontation through non-blameful language allows your spouse the freedom to initiate change because of consideration for your needs. And it ups the chances for cooperation.
 
9.  "KNOW WHEN TO SURRENDER: When you've tried confronting, or nagging, and nothing works --your spouse still leaves clothes on the floor, consider looking for the capacity to accept it as so.
 
10. "GIVE CARING AWAY THAT MATTERS: Find out how to deliver your craving in the way that has the most meaning for your spouse. Don't spin your wheels with gifts if what your spouse wants is loving words, time alone with you, a back rub or some help with chores.
 
11. "HANDLE HOT TOPICS: Remember, what matters most in discussing any hot topic like sex, money, or childrearing, is keeping that 'Heart to Heart' Connection' between the two of you.
 
12. "RESOLVE CONFLICTS AND DISAPPOINTMENTS: Through Win-Win Problem Solving, both of you are happy with the way things work out and no resentment builds up in the relationship.
 
13. "GIVE APOLOGY AND FORGIVENESS: You have to be willing to admit you made a mistake which you regret --without trying to justify yourself. And when your spouse apologizes, (as you to forgive them) you have to be willing to let go and forgive.
 
14. "GROW YOURSELF: Expanding your capacities as human beings enriches your life and brings excitement to the relationship, while meanwhile taking pressure off of your spouse.
 
15. "FORGE A BOND: Engaging in 'in-it-together' activities can be one of the ways to strengthen the bond between the two of you.
 
16. "NURTURE THE HONEYMOON: Recognize that your relationship needs and deserves TLC (tender loving care) so give yourselves regular doses of alone-together-having-fun times."
 
If you want to keep your "Honeymoon" alive or maybe revive it, keep in mind that marriage is a living picture of Christ's love for the church. Strive to make your marriage a "God Class Marriage" --the best it can be --a TRUE reflection of the love of Christ. So what are three "pillars" you can work on to nurture your marital relationship this week?
 
You both can do this, for you are God's handiwork created in Christ Jesus to do this for God prepared this for you to do in advance.
 
"For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." Ephesians 2:10

 

Jesus loves you so much!

 

 

All gifts to For This Reason Marriage Ministries are tax deductible:
 
Will you prayerfully consider supporting For This Reason Marriage Ministries with a year-end contribution in response to the blessing we have been in your life? No gift is too small. The Lord can use the $5 gift as much as He uses the $1000 gift.   

 

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We are here to help and offer phone/ Skype counseling. Just visit the Contact Us link on our website. If we can help, please call us at (817) 605-8133 or email us to request more information on our marriage seminars, retreats that help save and build marriages.

For This Reason Marriage Ministries

P.O. Box 742

Colleyville, TX 76034

Thank you and the Lord bless you for your prayers, love and gifts of support.

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There is still a group of us gathering Monday thru Saturday for one hour of prayer at 6 am, you can join us by phone if you are interested in joining us please Contact Us so I can give you more information! Remember that is 6:00 am CST.

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