Welcome to For This Reason Marriage Ministries:

We are Pastors Fred & Norma Aguilar and we are so excited to have you be a part of this powerful marriage ministry!  We have made it our mission to help couples to stay in love forever and revive their marriages.  We provide Spirit-filled, Christ-centered training and counseling "couple to couple" in the home.....where God intended His presence to abide as the foundation of our marriages. The Word of God is clear "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." Gen 2:24

Our Marriage Ministry has helped countless thousands of married couples by ministering Jesus' reconciling power to the separated, the divorced, the unsaved, broken families and couples that are hurting. The proof of our ministry is in the countless married couples lives we have had the privilege to help and the husbands and wives standing for their marriage today despite their friends, family and even brothers and sisters in the Lord telling them to divorce. Divorce is not the answer and we teach couples how to reconcile, stand and believe that nothing is too great for our GOD and how to be "In Love Forever".

The biblical concept of marriage is that marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman to live together in mutual love and respect for the glory of God, until death do them part.  Marriage is not about us, so it is not about me.  It is about God and His kingdom.  God ordained marriage as the foundational unit of society and everything is built on marriage.  Marriage, done God's way, creates the safest and best environment in which to rear children and covenant principles of marriage are based on steadfast love - looking out for the interest of each other.  They are about seeking to encourage and support each other, throughout life not just when you feel like being in the covenant, because you are "in the covenant" whether you feel like it or not and so we teach to please the Lord with your love, care and commitment to Him and to your spouse.

Thank you for visiting inloveforever.org. It is our sincere desire to bring hope to your marriage situation regardless the circumstances! Below you will find a powerful weekly teaching on covenant marriage done Gods way.

Take a minute to read testimony of couples just like you ........


WEEKLY MESSAGE | STANDING ON GODS WORD | 01/18/2017

Glory to The Lord & Blessings Upon You...

Pastors
Fred & Norma Aguilar

 

 

Understood -
 
"Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus." Philippians 3: 13-14
 
"But you don't understand what has been done to me, how I have been treated, what's been said to me! You don't know what it is like to live with my spouse." Let me tell you we have heard that over and over again.
 
Aren't we all like that at times? We can't see the good or the strong points of our spouse because we focus on faults or problems. Perhaps it wouldn't hurt for every husband and wife to memorize some scriptures.
 
"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me-put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you." Philippians 4:8-9
 
Determine your own thought life. Do not let your spouse do it for you by their actions. Cause your mind to dwell on those things that bring peace to you and glory to God.
 
Don't rush to be critical of your spouse or play psychiatrist.
 
"Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister."  Romans 14:13
 
Building your spouse's self-esteem is one of your most important goals in marriage. It's more important to seek to understand your spouse than to worry about your spouse understanding you.
 
A person's self-esteem is his overall judgment of himself-how much he likes his particular person.
 
High self-esteem doesn't mean you are on a continual ego-trip. High self-esteem means you have solid feelings of self-respect and self-worth. You are glad you are you. After all you were created in God's image!
 
Marriage partners with high self-esteem are bound to be happier and communicate better. High self-esteem means an absence or at least a considerable lessening of anxieties, complexes, hang-ups, and the other problems that prevent good understanding.
 
Low self-esteem often drives a person into a shell of silence or compels a person to become a dominating over talkative, unaccepting dictator in one-way communication "my way".
 
As long as one is preoccupied primarily with being understood, in time we will become miserable, overcome with self-pity, develop a spirit of demanding, and bitter withdrawal.
 
The husband and wife who become preoccupied with it - lost in it - engrossed to the fullest in learning what makes the other one tick, what the other one likes, dislikes, fears, worries about, dreams of, believes in and why he or she feels the way they feel.
 
"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace." Ephesians 4:2-3
 
Unity is the responsibility of each believer and is to be pursued earnestly and how much more in the marriage relationship.
The cry, "you don't understand! " more often than not is the childish whine of an immature mate who is playing games with his or her spouse.
 
"Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." Philippians 2:1-4
 
Seek to maintain unity with your spouse in your thoughts, attitudes, love spirit, and purpose. Recognize that a separatist "right to one's opinion", is not a biblical teaching.
 
Those who observe a godly life see what God is like. This is one of the church's primary functions. Godliness avoids anything that brings disunity or division in your marriage. It lives unselfishly, making your spouse the primary focus of its concerns, after your relationship with the Lord.
 
Live unselfishly! Turn away from any selfish ambition or conceited attitudes Esteem your spouse as being more important and more worthy than you are!
 You will repeat some rewards by living according to God's Word, Will and Way!

 

Jesus loves you so much!

All gifts to For This Reason Marriage Ministries are tax deductible:
 
Will you prayerfully consider supporting For This Reason Marriage Ministries with a year-end contribution in response to the blessing we have been in your life? No gift is too small. The Lord can use the $5 gift as much as He uses the $1000 gift.   
 
Your gift must be postmarked by December 31, 2016 to be credited in calendar year 2016 for tax purposes.   

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We are here to help and offer phone/ Skype counseling. Just visit the Contact Us link on our website. If we can help, please call us at (817) 605-8133 or email us to request more information on our marriage seminars, retreats that help save and build marriages.

For This Reason Marriage Ministries

P.O. Box 742

Colleyville, TX 76034

Thank you and the Lord bless you for your prayers, love and gifts of support.

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There is still a group of us gathering Monday thru Saturday for one hour of prayer at 6 am, you can join us by phone if you are interested in joining us please Contact Us so I can give you more information! Remember that is 6:00 am CST.

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